Fanthropos,

Did you write that by yourself? or did you quote from somewhere? Quite impressive...


Shadowli said:
I also want to ask the same question.

失恋 is a good thing because it means a second chance for you...
Good Luck!!

The song makes me thinking of my own life.... (some years later, i will feel exactly the same!)


Shadowli said:
We can learn a lot from the living.When you become old.All the memories will became very precious.

Actually, I never do well at this either. But, I did change my attitude to life in recent years. Should we be 淡然 when we succeed or achieve something just because we can't bear the pain of losing it some day? It is a "No" for me now. All things that we might have throughout our lives will leave us in the end. The Universe is always moving and changing every second, so what matters to us is only the "ever had". We possess it, enjoy it, feel having it, and try our best to keep it... but for every moment, unless we care about it using a real heart wouldn't we feel its existence! What good it is to be as cold as the buildings surrounding us???

haha, sorry for such a useless arguement!!


shadowli给您的回复:
呃,本想尽量用英文和你说的,可担心自己的词不达意,呵还有英文表达上的阻碍~汗,当然我会继续学习英文的,因为这是我的兴趣:)
其实可能你没有留意到之前回复里开头的一句话,就是:"如果可能的话",因现在的自己暂时也无法做到所谓的淡然,至于淡然这问题
推荐一篇文章给你吧:<Style 也说什么叫有品>感觉作者说的非常到位,还有谢谢你能在这表达自己对于人生情感得失等种种看法.
还有你并不需要道歉,这并不属于争论而是一种探讨吧,呵呵.

“不以物喜不以己悲”？
Then how can you melt a broken heart??? We can't live pretending that we are senseless for nothing.... haha, but I do agree that over-doing is worse than no-doing!!


shadowli给您的回复:
这里指的仅仅是对于得失的一种淡然(显然这并非易事),狂悲狂喜于心灵似乎都是一种伤害~淡然与麻木之间还是有些许的区别的吧?你说了?

It won't matter anymore online what gender you are. Only if you can show your appreciation, I believe everyone will feel the comforts and supports...

震撼? Such a big word!!! Shadowli, you can reward youself with either a fancy dinner or some luxury clothes for that comment...... haha


shadowli给您的回复:
终于看到你的评论里用中文了,那我可否用中文回复你 [redface] ,
如果可能的话,希望自己能够拥有一颗不以物喜不以己悲的平常心~
否则若是某日看到负面的话岂不是要饿自己几天了,所以奖赏就免了吧~:)

The second and the third!!! omg... That is why every man should work his butt off to give his wife once a lifetime wedding ceremony!!!! BTW, don't be sad about how many are visiting and leaving comments. Every friend here cares about how you feel and enjoys sharing it with you, but everyone is living in his/her own world which might make him/her speechless. Believe me, having your place for a break is a blessing for them...


Shadowli said:
I was very moved for your support.I see your point.I won't give up.Thank you so much. [redface]

If I tell my gf that "A little distraction, and You are the one! ", how will she feel? I can guarantee that she will be really sad. “you are the one” is something so strong and certain. “You can be the one”, or “you may be the one”, is ok when you have any doubt. However, I certainly disbelieve that attitude of “if … , you are the one.”